We
hope you had a pleasant week, but regardless of how your week has been, a much
needed dose of heavenly replenishment and refreshment came again in the form of
the weekly Wednesday Bible Study at HOTR.
It
started with a round of intercessory prayers led by Brother Ifeanyi Nwose,
declaring that the presence of the Lord was in the house and imploring us to
invite Him to take charge of the service.
The
talented, inspiring "De Masterpiece" was up next with a brief worship
session led by Sister Anita, with the song, "Holy: I will lift up my voice
and I will sing holy..."
Next,
opening prayers were said by pastor Peter Anya, which declared the service
officially open.
Brother Paulnams took over and continued the worship
session, starting with "Lord you reign forever," and ending with
"God is a miracle worker."
At
last, it was time for the Word to come forth and touch someone's heart.
This
week's message was given by pastor Dexter Ekpe, an associate pastor in HOTR
Asaba.
After
appreciating the senior pastor, our host pastor, Cosfinney N. Udoka who was
unavoidably absent, he continued with his message, titled "How to spark up
your life."
He
started by saying that a true church of Christ should be lively, active, full
of power, and aura. Any church that is otherwise, is not a church of Jesus
Christ.
Christianity
is supposed to be a journey of pleasure and happiness, not the sad tale that a
lot of people, Christians included believe it is. This misconception has eaten
deep into the fabric of the church to the extent that a lot of Christians have
given the devil the pleasurable things of life, instead of enjoying them like
God intended. He used the example of Illuminati, a word that has been
twisted by the devil even though it means "Children of light," and
was mentioned in the Bible. The television, internet, etc., are examples of
what we have left for the devil to twist and make evil, instead of being the
pioneers of these things, as Christians.
Enjoyment
is all encompassing, everything you do should be enjoyable and pleasurable.
There is nothing like enjoyment without happiness, happiness is the key essence
of enjoyment. We are spirit-beings, and so physical things do not make us happy
by themselves. Relationships are more important to us, and that is why when the
key relationships in our lives are not working, we are not happy. The enjoyment
that God wants for us is tied to relationships, we need them to properly
function as human beings. No human being has the capacity to exist without a
community, God made us that way. We need to play by the rules of life and
community so that we can be as happy as God wants us to be.
Romans
14 vs 17: "For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but
righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost (KJV)."
This
passage is talking about three kinds of relationships: Righteousness- our
relationship with God, Peace- our relationship with men, Joy- our relationship
with ourselves.
Ways
to spark up your life:
1.
HAVE THE SPIRIT OF CELEBRATION. Always celebrate yourself, life, and other
people wherever you are. You can do things by maintaining a constant reminder
of the good things that have taken place. It is easier to remember the bad
things and times, but they steal your happiness and do you no good. Build a
life that is immune to sadness, nobody should be permitted to make you unhappy.
Unhappiness makes you unhealthy, physically and otherwise.
2.
QUIT CONDEMNATION AND REGRET. Romans 14 vs 22. God is against
self-condemnation. Regret is not a healthy and happy way to live, do not regret
everything. Instead, celebrate the things and people in your life, like your
family members, pastors, bosses,
lecturers, etc.
3.
LEARN TO TAKE A REST. Exodus 31 v 16, 17. If He who is never tired,
symbolically rested and was refreshed after He created the earth, why shouldn't
you, a human being rest?
Mark 6
vs 30, 31. Jesus also instructed His disciples to rest because He knew they
needed it.
4. DO
NOT PERSONALIZE FAILURE. A Chinese proverb says, "A man who knows how to
laugh at himself first, will never lack pleasure and entertainment."
Failure
is just an event, not the whole story. You made a mistake, but you are not the
mistake. If you fail in an endeavor stand up and try again. If you dwell on
that moment of failure, you loose the ability to try again.
5. DO
NOT DEPEND ON OTHER PEOPLE'S ENDORSEMENTS OR CONCEPTIONS. You know yourself
more than other people do, you are your best endorsement. You will not be happy
if you do not define your identity. Do not allow any man to define success and
progress for you, you should do that for yourself if you want true happiness.
6.
ALWAYS LEARN TO APPRECIATE. No one is self-made, there was help in one form or
the other. You should endeavor to appreciate all those helpers and thank God
for them. You should also learn to say "thank you" and be grateful
for the little things. God is the first one you should learn to appreciate,
even for the seemingly little miracles and blessings.
Light
is always stronger around the source of contribution. It is more blessed to
give than to receive, you can not always live your life on other people's
contributions. No man is truly happy without contributing to other people's
lives in one form or the other. If you live your life for yourself, you will
die an illusion. If you live your life for others, you will die an institution.
In conclusion,
he asked the congregation to ask God for the right spirit, to do things that
will help us live as richly as God intended.
Pastor
Anya rounded up with reminders of some earlier announcements, the taking of
tithes and offerings, and the benediction.