Sunday, 7 April 2013

BEGINNING AND THE ENDING OF INTIMACY IN MARRIAGE BY PASTOR COSFINNEY

It was a wonderful communion service on Sunday morning, and we were privileged to be in His presence.
The service started with intercessory prayers ledby Josephine.  After that, Lois took a short worship song titled “In Humble Adoration.
Wilson led the opening prayer. The praise session was led by Maryann of “De Masterpiece” with the song titled “Anybody here.” Knowledge took the second part with the songs“Bless the Lord with me” and “Ha-Hallelujah.”
Worship time started with a song titled “Only you are God,” led by Direction.
‘Buchi gave the following announcements: Church in the home [CITH] was scheduled to hold at 5 p.m., the week-long fasting ended today, the kingdom partners’ meeting will hold this Saturday, March 13 at 11 a.m., with the Senior Pastor of the house, the millennium temple, the global headquarter church of House on the Rock will be dedicated on the 21st of April, in Lagos.
After the announcements, “De Masterpiece” ministered to the congregation with the song titled, “Sometimes,” led by Ufuoma and Maryann.
Pastor Chikelu came up to welcome the new comers in the congregation and encouraged them to prayerfully consider making House on the Rock, Asaba their home church if they are residents of Asaba.
After the welcome of new comers, he went on to welcome the man of God, Pastor Cosfinney N. Udoka, our host pastor here as “De Masterpiece” sang “I’m thirsty for you.”
The message was titled: “The beginning and end of intimacy.” It was a continuation of the series on marriage he started about five weeks ago.
Bible Verses: Genesis 24 vs. 1-3, 2 vs. 24, Ruth 1 vs. 16-18.
He prayed and continued with the message.
“Intimacy means nearness in fellowship, getting to know someone deeper. Marriage is a hundred percent spiritual and it is likened unto the relationship we have with God.”
“The church is married to Christ and is supposed to have intercourse with Him. Intimacy in marriage begins with your choice of a partner and the spirit behind the marriage. The God behind the man controls the man [or woman]. If a man and woman do not have the same God, it will be very difficult for their spirits to unite, even after their flesh has united in “marriage.”
“The Bible says, “Do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever.” That means, do not marry or get involved with someone who doesn’t have the same belief system as you do.”
“Another factor that helps intimacy in marriage is time. In today’s world, couples seem not to have time for their marriage because everyone is so busy.”
“At the very least, couples should devote fifteen to twenty minutes daily, almost two hours every week, and at least two weekends every year to spend together, not complaining or talking about children, bills, or work. This should be time spent enjoying each other and reminding each other of the love you share.”
“Sex is the most efficient tool to bring about intimacy in marriage. It is a spiritual thing that should be enjoyed in marriage. It brings a greater height of intimacy in marriage; it can cause issues if not had on a consistent level.”
“It is the same with our relationship with God. We should take out time to commune with our God, at least ten to twenty minutes, daily. He is craving to have us come to Him in worship, without complains.”
“The benefits of sex [in marriage]:
1.    It reduces stress, high blood pressure, and boosts immunity.
2.    It increases your IG-A[Immunoglobulin “A,” designed to fight cold and infection].
3.    It burns calories.
4.    It improves your cardiovascular health, it protects the heart.
5.    It increases your self-esteem.
6.    It reduces chances of prostate cancer [for men].”
“The recommended amount of sex for a married couple is at least twice a week.”
He concluded by saying that proper intimacy in marriage cannot be developed in marriage without constant sex with each other.
After the message, prayer, tithes and offering, the Holy Communion was taken.
Closing prayers and benedictions were said, bringing the first service to a wonderful close.

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